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kissing a girl, how would I know if the reason behind the kiss is
merely sexual desire or that she truly loves me? In other words,
would a girl kiss someone she does not love? And how would I know the
difference between the two types of kisses?
A. Sure she would.
Kissing does not mean you have to be in love with someone. It could
mean that you like them or are just physically attracted to them.
I'm not really
sure if there is a difference between a kiss that is love felt and
one that is not. You can kiss passionately with someone that you are
only physically attracted to and you can kiss passionately if you are
in love. I would say that someone who kisses you who is in love with
you will want to prolong the kiss. While someone who is not in love
will want the kiss to be quick and then move onto the next level,
which would be touching.
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I'm going out with this girl and she and I really like each other,
but we haven't kissed yet. What would you think would be the best
place or way to really get the moment of the kiss so we can do it for
awhile and not make it short. Should it be alone? If so, where would
a great kiss should always be when you're alone with her. A movie
theatre is a good place because it's dark and people won't be paying
attention. Try to sit near the back, though, for privacy. But I do
believe that a first kiss should be the good-bye kiss. When you're
dropping her off at her place or saying good-bye from seeing one
another until the next time, ask her if it's okay if you kiss her.
It's not childish or geeky to ask a woman that. It's respectful and kind.
I'm 16 and I really like this guy, and he really likes me, but I
won't go out with him because I've never kissed a guy. And I lied to
him and told him that I have. I really like him but I'm worried that
if I tell him then he might tell someone else and it would get around
school and I would be so embarrassed because I'm in 10th grade and
never kissed a guy. We talk every night and he always asks why I
won't go out with him, and I just tell him because I don't want a
boyfriend now. HELP!!!!!
I see it you have three options:
honest with him. If he really likes you then he'll understand and be
gentle with you about it. If he doesn't, then you'll know right away
that he wasn't worth the time in the first place.
lieing to him and you'll never go out with him.
say anything, go out with him, and enjoy your first kiss! Most
likely he won't even notice that it's your first kiss. He'll make the
move and you just follow. Kissing is so simple. It's not difficult at
all and those who think it is, it's all a mindset because you don't
know what to expect. But it's so easy if the guy makes the first move
towards a kiss.
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and find out more. It's up to you how you're going to take it now.
web page really helped me out. I haven't kissed a girl on the lips
yet and I'm afraid to. I read through your kissing tips, but I don't
know what to do when our lips meet. I am afraid of messing up because
the girl I am going out with is experienced. So please help me out.
your lips meet, just gently press yours against hers. If you wish,
you can move your lips a bit back and forth against hers or in a
small circular motion. The best type of kiss is when you meet hers at
a slight angle. This gives more opportunities to explore, it feels
nicer, and will give you a chance to French kiss if you wish.
I have a friend who is 15 and has never kissed a guy. She just
recently asked another friend how you know when a guy wants to kiss
you. We aren't quite sure how to answer that. Please e-mail me with
what my friend and myself should do or with any suggestions that you
might have for my kiss-less friend.
are a few things to look for to see if a guy wants to kiss you. If
he's standing really close to you while the two of you are facing one
another. If you're on a date with a guy and he puts his arms around
you or holds your hand. That is a very good sign! If you find a guy
staring at you for a long time while you're with him. That is another
very good sign.
things like this are alot of guess work, especially if the guy is
shy, but usually the above signs are a good indication that he wants
to kiss you.
it bad to have a really wet mouth? Is swallowing your spit before a
good idea? And is it bad when your teeth touch each others?
not a good thing to have a really wet mouth. It makes for a slobbery
kiss. Yes, swallowing before is a great idea! It happens sometimes
when teeth bump. It even happens with my boyfriend and I once in a
while and we've been together for over 15 months. Just laugh it off.
Don't make a big deal about it and continue the kiss.
am 17 and have never been kissed until yesterday by my boyfriend. He
knew it was my first kiss and he French kissed me, which really
shocked me. I really had no idea what I was doing. Is there a way to
tell him how I would rather be kissed without actually coming out and
really. Unless you tell him he's not going to know. The next time he
kisses you, after you've finished the kiss, let him know that you
would like to try kissing differently. Be sincere about it. When he
asks you how, tell him nicely and calmly how you would like to be
kissed. Don't get mad or frustrated with him. Communication is the
key to a strong and healthy relationship. If you don't like French
kissing tell him! There's nothing wrong with not liking it. Many
people don't like it or are not ready for it. So when you're ready to
tell him, remember: be sincere, don't put him down or the way he
kisses, and let him know exactly what you'd like.
I'm a 16 male that is dating a freshman female. We've been going out
for about 3 weeks and it's going great. I have a problem with kissing
her. I'm scared to do it. I don't know why. I've kissed other girls
but I've never been scared to do it. I'm just afraid of Frenching her.
I haven't ever done it to anyone. I somewhat know how to do it but
I'm afraid I'll screw up. How should I go about Frenching her? I kind
of know the basics to it, it's just that I'm not experienced with it
so I was wondering if you could explain to me how to do it to every
detail you can.
cup her face in your hands. Or, you can put your hands on her arms.
Bring your face towards hers and leave your mouth a bit open. Tilt
your head slightly to one side so that when your lips meet the top
and bottom of your lips will meet the corners of her mouth. It
doesn't have to be dead on so don't worry about that. When your lips
meet hers, because your mouth is open hers will instinctively open,
too. So wait until hers are open and then put your tongue in her
mouth. Use just the tip of your tongue to touch hers. Rub the tip of
your tongue over hers, either in a slow circle or up and down the
front of hers. Now, you can either leave your lips the way they are
or you can move them very slowly in a circle over hers.
this is not an exact science. Play around with it and find something
that makes you feel comfortable and that you enjoy. But remember...
do not force your tongue all the way in. Try using just the tip of
your tongue on the tip of hers to get the idea of how far to put your
tongue in her mouth.
is very normal to feel nervous about French kissing for the first
time. Since you are only 16 I'm sure she will understand if you're
nervous or haven't done this yet. Who knows. Maybe she's never done
it either! But it takes practise in order for someone to be able to
do it without thinking about what to do.
the two of you have kissed a few times, ask her what she likes about
it or if there is something you can do that she enjoys that you
haven't done before.
kissing or French kissing, is it better to close your mouth once in
a while or just keep it open?
close it once in a while while kissing. Variation is very exciting
in a kiss. Kissing only one way can be a bit boring and tiresome if
the kiss is lasting a long time.
boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month and the
relationship is great except our French kissing. We both seem to have
two completely different styles in kissing and can't seem to get our
tongues in sync no matter what. What do you suggest?
would suggest talking to him about it. You tell him how you like to
use your tongue and have him tell you how he likes it. Hopefully the
two of you can come to some type of happy medium. Maybe it's not a
matter of being in sync but that maybe the two of you don't like the
way the other kisses. If that is the case then the two of you will
have to talk about it.
should I approach a guy in a kiss? Like coming up to him and kissing
him, how should I do it?
act naturally. Walk up to him, put your hands on his shoulders or on
his upper arms and kiss him. There shouldn't be any thought to what
is going on. Do what feels comfortable and natural for you. And you
don't need to start off with a huge, open-mouthed kiss, either. Start
with a small one and work your way up, so to speak.
just wanted to know how far you keep your mouth open when you make out?
you have your mouth open too far it will feel like you and your
partner are being smothered. Open your mouth up to what feels
comfortable. There's no set rule as to how far you open it. You can
open it slightly during one kiss, then the next time (usually during
a more passionate kiss) open it a little more.
I have a question... I had one of my first French kisses and I
didn't know what to do with my tongue. How do I move it? And how do I
switch head positions?
can do whatever you feel comfortable with your tongue. Explore your
partner's tongue with your own. Use the tip of your tongue to explore
the tip of theirs. Or you can explore the inside of their mouth with
just the tip of your tongue, like their teeth or the roof of their
mouth. Just don't force your tongue all the way in. Move your tongue
around gently and slowly.
switch head positions, just break the kiss gently and turn your head
to the other side. As simple as that!