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You must realize
at the very
outset that
there are some
actions which
irritate and put
off a woman. As
we proceed
further on, we
will give you
many options to
choose from,
with regard to
such aspects of
men’s behavior
which turn off
women and ways
to avoid display
of such manners.
1. Clingy/Needy
Behavior
When you display
a clinging, “I
–need-you-all-the-time”
attitude. These
arise mainly out
of a constant
fear of loss or
a feeling of
insecurity in
men. If you give
out a feeling to
the woman that
without her you
will perish,
since you feel
so very
insecure, it is
surely going to
put her off.
Like calling her
a million times,
feeling envious
of her friends,
resenting all or
anything that
she does with
anyone else
other than you,
are activities
which completely
thwart a woman’s
sense of freedom
and she will
vanish at the
first available
opportunity.
2. Pushy
When you display
over-aggressive
or bullish
behavior.
Especially when
it comes to a
sexual
relationship,
some men
bulldoze their
way and force
women to indulge
in such an act.
And of course,
later wonder why
they never
derived any
enjoyment out of
it.
3.
Bragging/Boasting
Women truly hate
this. She might
be temporarily
impressed with
your bravado,
but with your
continuous
narration of “I”
stories – she
will surely get
bored. And most
of all, don’t
you think you
should hold her
interest by
giving out
details part by
part and not the
whole thing in
one go.
4. Angry or
Violent Temper
Train your mind
to learn to
control your
moods and temper
adequately. A
controlled
behavior is the
sign or a
refined person.
And a woman can
not have faith
in someone who
loses his shirt
or blows up
frequently. She
will be in awe
of you but you
can not win her
confidence.
5. Insensitivity
This does not
mean saying rude
words to her; it
means not being
able to express
to her that you
are being
light-hearted
and in a
fun-loving mood.
6. Boring
Men appear
boring mainly if
he is bashful or
diffident and he
is incapable of
displaying his
true character,
his persona.
7. Passive and
Indecisive
Women feel very
secure when her
man is able to
take prompt
decisions, stick
to his decisions
and displays
other leadership
qualities. You
then give out
the signal of
being in control
of situations,
being able to
provide for her.
8. Be a Good
Listener
Stop looking at
her mammary
glands for a
change and
listen. You then
make her feel
important.
9. Stop being
Stingy and Mean
This does not
mean that you
flood her with
expensive gifts
all the time,
but if on a date
and in a café…be
prepared to foot
the bill.
Chivalry still
pays.
10. Don’t be
Boorish
Some men think
if they act
rough and
bristly with
women, they will
give some sort
of a macho
image, or gather
a kind of
sympathy, so
that the next
step she will
take is restore
him mentally and
co-operate with
his attitude.
Think again.
11. When you
Try Too Hard
When you pose to
be the
eager-beaver.
Desperate to
please. She
starts to get
wary and
skeptical.
12. Sex on Top
of Mind
It is perfectly
alright to have
sex in your
mind. It is
natural and
women have that
thought too. But
if you approach
her with this as
the sole agenda
of meeting her,
she will run for
life, and you
will not even
get a second
chance.
13. Learn to
Relax
Women find it a
pleasure to be
with a relaxed,
calm and
behaviorally
controlled man.
Practice the art
of
self-discipline
14. Stop Acting
Defensive
If for some
reason, you find
the woman in a
foul mood, stop
acting defensive
and giving her
your story. Be
sympathetic and
understanding.
Master your own
mind to keep
emotions from
flying off.
15. Develop a
Positive Frame
of Mind
Negative
attitudes are a
real no-no for
most women.
About The Author
Joshua Goh is dating & relationship expert. His desire is to motivate and support single men, women and couples to overcome the obstacles preventing them from attaining the loving relationships and lives they really want. For more information on up-to-date dating reviews and practical tips & tricks, please visit
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