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by
Jesse Pinkoski
As a single guy, (and there
are a lot out there) you've probably been in a situation where maybe
you're in a bar, and you glance over and see a woman. She's tall,
blonde, slim yet buxom. You contemplate making your move. Should you ask
her her name? Introduce yourself? Maybe even tell a joke? You get up,
feel your knees shake, the butterflies in your stomach. You walk
over...and straight past her to the men's room. "Damn!", you think. "I
wish I had more confidence." You should.
The biggest mistake men can
make when contemplating asking a woman out is having a lack of
confidence. Maybe she's so beautiful, sure of herself, even both. But
the one thing you have to realize is... most women want the same
things you do! They want love, affection, loyalty, and yes, even SEX!
You just have to realize that. Once you do, and you get it into your
mind that you're both human beings that want essentially the same
things, you might just stop at her table and introduce yourself. And you
might just get her telephone number on top of it!
While confidence is
essential, and one of the things a woman finds most attractive, it's not
all that matters. Unfortunately, a lot of people, (women as well
as men) judge someone, or make the decision of whether to date
someone or not, by their physical appearance. It's not very fair to the
5'4" 200lb. guy, but it's a fact of life. You can
either accept it and not do anything about it, or you can put down the
Twinkies and hit the gym!!
If you are a heavier guy and
want to shed a few pounds, the first thing you need to do is aerobics.
Whether it be the treadmill, jumping-jacks, running, even just
walking, you need to get your heart pumping and sweat to burn fat! Just be sure not to over do it at first, you may even want to talk with
your doctor.
If you're a smaller guy and
want to gain some weight and muscle, simply increasing the number of
calories you take in every day will add mass. Increasing the amount of
protein you take in, coupled with a good weight lifting regimen,
will add muscle. To add muscle size, lift heavier weights. Bench
presses, curls, shoulder presses all work well. Results will come, just
be patient! Even consider working with a personal trainer. You can find
one at your local gym. Sooner or later, you will notice the results, and
so will the women!!
It is a very difficult thing
to walk up to a total stranger and ask her out on a date. But remember,
if you have confidence in yourself, and put in an honest effort in the
gym, results WILL come. Both mentally, physically, and personally!
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