How To Learn Dating Secrets From The Best

By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

So let me ask you a quick question. Who do you think the world's BEST dating teacher is? No, I'm not talking about myself, but thanks for thinking so...

I think the answer might surprise you. The worlds best dating teacher is a WOMAN. But not just any woman. I'm talking about a woman who is "attractive and she knows it".

You know the one.

I'm sure you've met her many times in your life. You've probably had several "crushes" on her over the last several years. And what did these "Super Babes" do when they realized that you "liked" them?
Exactly.

They did things that made your crush even MORE INTENSE... while at the same time NOT RETURNING the same level of interest. I'm going to suggest to you that we can BOTH learn a lot about dating by paying attention to what ATTRACTIVE WOMEN do when a man shows interest.

Stay with me. This is about to get FASCINATING.

A few years back, a couple of women got together and wrote a book called "The Rules". You've probably heard of it. It's the notorious book for women about how to get a man to commit to you and ultimately marry you.

It's quite a book. You should read it. In this book, the authors suggest all kinds of "unorthodox" techniques, like not calling men and rarely returning their calls, never approaching men, and generally playing "hard to get". Why did this book and other sequel books go on to sell MILLIONS of copies? RIGHT! Because the techniques WORK to attract men and get them HOOKED.

More on this particular topic later.

AN INTERESTING PERSPECTIVE      

THE FASCINATING PART

Now I want to explain why I gave these particular examples. I want you to stop for a minute and think about something.

I want you to ask yourself the following question, then answer it HONESTLY:

DID THESE THINGS MAKE YOU THINK ABOUT AND WANT THE WOMAN WHO DID THEM MORE OR LESS?

Be honest now. If you're like most guys, then these particular things and others like them made you think about the girl MORE. They made you wonder what she was doing and what her INTENTIONS were. And most of all, they made you WANT HER even more. Strange as it may seem, these things, which SHOULD make you RUN AWAY actually make you WANT HER.

What's the deal?

Well, just like WOMEN aren't logical, MEN aren't logical either. And if you're honest about it, you'll admit that you sometimes respond in STRANGE AND UNUSUAL WAYS to a woman's flighty and manipulative behaviors. Some of these types of crazy things that women do drive men WILD with desire and even jealousy... and often lead to OBSESSION.

It's a crazy world, huh?

WHY I'M TELLING YOU ALL THIS

I say these things not because I want to piss you off.

No.

I say them because I want you to start thinking about these types of things in a DIFFERENT WAY. I want you to realize that the simple fact that a particular woman that you're interested in doesn't NEED you... and does things that clearly demonstrate it... often make her even MORE ATTRACTIVE to you. Well guess what?

THE SAME GOES when it comes to making WOMEN fee ATTRACTION for YOU.

In other words, instead of getting UPSET with women for doing these things, LEARN FROM THEM. And then use what you learn to create that magical emotion called ATTRACTION inside of women you're interested in.

IS THIS MANIPULATION?

I can hear it now. The first response I often hear when I start talking this way, and recommending that men use what they learn to actually CAUSE women to feel ATTRACTION usually goes something like this:
"But David, if I consciously do things to make women feel attracted to me, aren't I manipulating them?"

Most of us guys want to be "good guys". We don't like to lie, cheat, and steal. And we don't like to do sneaky things that don't FEEL RIGHT. I get it.

But here's the BIG DIFFERENCE. When I recommend a technique, for instance:
     "Don't act like a Wussy."
     "Give her the gift of missing you."
     "Tease and bust her balls."
     "Date other women."
     "You be the one to end calls, dates, and other interactions... and do it a little too soon... on an up note."
...I'm NOT recommending that you do secret, deceptive things to "trick her into liking you".

NOOOOOO.

Instead, I'm teaching you the principals of ATTRACTION. I'm teaching you examples of things to do that communicate a FAR MORE IMPORTANT IDEA...
THAT YOU'RE NOT A NEEDY WUSS.

The more you actually DO these things, the more you begin to "get it", and become the type of guy that naturally attracts women.
 

BACK TO WHERE WE STARTED

At the beginning of this article I told you that an ATTRACTIVE WOMAN is the best dating teacher there is... because she does things that ALMOST NATURALLY AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION that men feel for her. One of the KEYS to this natural ability is communicating that she doesn't NEED the particular guy that she's with. When she does these little things to communicate that she doesn't NEED a particular guy, those things tend to AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION that the guy feels.

We've all had it happen to us many times, so I know that you know exactly what I'm talking about. So from now on, instead of getting UPSET at women for calling at the last minute to cancel plans, getting annoyed when they talk to other guys, etc., LEARN FROM IT. Use it to understand how YOU should approach ATTRACTIVE WOMEN... and how to behave so that YOU are the one who creates and amplifies the attraction in HER.

And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating" yet... then what are you waiting for? You can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes. Really. It's here - just follow the  link and download your copy. This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these articles will make more sense once you have read the book.

     ...and read it, learn it, and use it.
     Talk to you soon, 

     David D.

P.S. 

As you can probably imagine, I get a TON of email... So if you'd like to send me a Success Story, Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:

1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your question. I appreciate all of the "Your stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of the specifics... because this helps other guys to see what's working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in the subject line of the email. I read these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:

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