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by Jason Rase
It is important to be really systematic
for turning friendship into romance. Friendship and romance are
inseparable in many cases, but it is not universally true for all.
Many people are enjoying their romantic life that they started with
friendship a long back. On the other hand, the diametrically
opposite situation may happen to your life also…you can lose your
intimate friend in the mire of romance. It is the mystery of
psychology that propels human beings to behave like this. But, we
should always follow what our mind directs us to do. If you feel to
make a romantic relationship with your friend, do not hesitate to
march forward until you get him/her.
Just think of the situation – you have a friend, who understands you
well, who knows you and would stand beside you in all situations;
he/she is certainly the perfect match for your romantic life. The
most important thing is that your have to be pragmatic enough to
make her/him understand the situation, otherwise everything will be
lost in the wave of time.
Romancing close friends can be risky – they may take the
relationship as granted at the beginning…and you may have to face a
false situation. If you are honest about your aims and objectives,
do not hesitate! You know her well right from her earlier days and
vice versa…and it is assumed that the relationship that exists
between you can never be altered even if the sky comes down to the
earth. A true friend can bring success, happiness and all the
treasures in life. Honesty will pay for you and if you are honest to
bring your relationship to romance, none has the power to stop that.
Most of the people assume lot of things at the beginning of any
friendship. They start daydreaming and finish as a loser. It should
be kept in mind that mere assuming would not pay you until you have
an utmost desire to fulfill your demand. If you are too crazy to
make a romantic relationship with your close friend…take time and
wait for the perfect time to tell her. You would have to change
certain things of you. Your lip service can play a big role to
canalize your friendship to romance. Tell expressively and
persuasively that you love her from your heart. If she does not want
to change the equation of the relationship immediately, do not be
worried; keep on persuading her and you would get the result in no
time. In such cases faith and honesty work a lot.
It is necessary to bring certain changes within you; otherwise it
would be too tough for you to transfer your relationship from
friendship to romance. First of all, get a different look – always
dress elegantly and spray perfume frequently, so that she can
observe some changes in you. Be realistic and create an opportunity
for her to come closure to you. Suppose, both of you are in a
stroll, what you need to do is that place your palm near her waist
and smoothly start rubbing until she gets aroused sexually. Wait for
the perfect time - hold her hand and kiss. If she agrees with your
gesture, carry on kissing in different places including lip, breast
and more. Try to be direct with her and make no hesitation in asking
for dating. Say, whatever you have at the earliest, because nobody
knows what may happen in the days to come. Still, you need to be
practical enough to judge the perfect time and place and of course,
of the mental state of your beloved. Be true to your heart and do
not fear from rejection. Keep a positive outlook and you can earn
your desired soul by applying the tried and tested law.
Once she shows any positive sign of continuing romance, try to make
it doubly sure by giving her romantic gifts and sumptuous treats at
renowned restaurants. Whenever you get spare time, go to your nearby
park or at the riverside. Speak in romantic tone and pick out some
happy memories of the past. It will simply create magic for you.
Make scope for her to vent out her emotional stories of her life.
Sit closer to her and continue rubbing her body, so that she can
feel good. Look for the opportunity to stimulate her physically as
well as emotionally… if you can do so, you are rest assured of
winning half the battle. She is not expected to tell about this
incident to anyone; it is because of two separate reasons. Firstly,
she would not like to create any gossip amongst her friends and
secondly, she would not like to debar her from getting sexual
pleasure.
So, be free from hesitation and enjoy the ultimate friendship
through making love. Always remember the proverb – "Marriages are
made in heaven" and if it is true, you do not need to bother about
the consequences. Go and tell your friend!!! She would definitely
reciprocate your feelings. It is quite possible that she is also
making her mind for you…
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Jason Rase provides online dating and webcam chat rooms for meeting
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