Authored by Robert Lee of
alovelinksplus.com, based on the concepts of Christian Carter�s
�Catch Him and Keep Him� ebook
We all know about the �obvious� woman
and how she can easily attract any man.
Show a lot of cleavage.
Be forthcoming in physical contact when meeting men, long touches on
his arm and leg. Close talking that allows her breath to cross his
And, quite simply, just being �easy�.
That�s how the obvious woman attracts men.
Of course the trouble with these encounters is that, for the most
part, they are shallow, short-lived and empty.
I remember reading about a survey how blondes attract more men than
brunettes. You know the old saying �Blondes have more fun�. It�s
true if you think that attracting men strictly through physical
attraction is the way to go. Men, the survey surmised, prize
blondes. The general male feelings toward brunettes is that they are
not �trophies� but family oriented women. Brunettes were understood
to be more dependable, more geared towards marriage, more the
�settle down� type.
Blondes were the height of the excitement factor, bringing out the
caveman, the instinctive man, and the reactive man towards ownership
of a woman.
Blondes were the �obvious� catch for a man.
And as a side survey the blondes were asked how they were treated in
their relationships and they reported that they were indeed treated
as if the man they were with owned them.
Men reacted towards blondes with purely physical attraction traits
and the dating cycle was short-lived, often sexual in nature earlier
The brunettes reported that they had a harder time to get initial
dates but their relationships lasted longer, were more intellectual
and more forward-looking. Men generally had a longer term picture of
relationships with brunettes.
We can surmise from these surveys that indeed, blondes have more fun
and more initial dates, but brunettes catch �The Man� more often and
have more stable relationships.
Now if you are blonde I�m not suggesting you change your hair color
to attract a �settling down� type of man.
And should you be brunette (or redhead) I�m not saying for you to
dye your hair blonde to get more dates.
The part of female/male initial attraction qualities overlooked the
sexual responses in a man that obvious women put out.
Catching a man is easy if you use your physical traits as a lure.
But the problem is that you catch a guy that is interested in a
purely physical relationship. A hookup. And no strings attached.
So, what is the key to not being obvious and still �Catching That
This �Intellectual Attraction� is when a man can see you as an
equal, as a woman with compatibility towards his interests and his
acceptance of yours.
This is not the guy that can�t look up past your chest as you talk
This is the man that can open up to you as an equal, can accept that
you have ideas of your own. He is comfortable in conversations that
Drop him like a rock if he�s a complainer, a �momma�s boy� or shows
signs of a controlling personality.
How do you find and attract these catchable and keepable men?
They are all around you. Often they are overshadowed by loud-mouthed
jerk friends. Separating this type of man from his �pack� so you can
attract him can usually be accomplished by a simple short smile his
way which invites him to talk with you.
The �catchable man� can be met singly in grocery stores, malls,
night school classes: wherever men are not a part of a pack. Bars
and clubs are not the ideal places to meet the �right man� because
the environment does not often lend itself to intellectual
attraction but rather the reverse: the man�s caveman response.
Libraries, museums, art shows, hobby stores, heck, you can even spot
guys in Home Depot and Sears that are single. And active in their
Dress appropriately, not slutty. Keep your hem stylish, your pant
leg in season and your thong in your dresser drawer. You�ll have
time enough for sexy dressing once you�ve been dating for a while.
This shows your caught man that you dress sexy �for him� not for the
When a girl shows her thong,
Marriage is usually wrong.
When a girl first shows her smarts,
She often has all the other parts.
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Thanks for reading and best of luck in life and love.
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Christian Carter. Article copyright Robert Lee and Cheerful Attitude
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