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Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With
Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common
Mistakes...
-By David DeAngelo, Author Of Double Your Dating
MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never
seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some
reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how
"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a
powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE
you.
I realize that this
doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but
GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act
on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY
like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to
feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel
differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable"
with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to
please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us
guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or
"permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them
to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well
means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think
again.
You will never succeed by looking for
approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who
chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have
you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers,
and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as
well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen
a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try
to buy your attention and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to
women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at
manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate
mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too
early on.
Attractive
women are rare.
And they get a
LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't
realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or
another ALL THE
An attractive woman
is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested.
This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of
times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have
usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They
have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to
expect.
And one thing that
turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than
just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really,
REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the
woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too
fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean
back. Relax.
There's a much better
way...
MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with
it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy
woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five
full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their
"attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more
average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way
around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities
in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than
they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual
attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN
how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks
One of the most
common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten
started... because they think that attractive women are only
interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a
certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only
interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a
man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract
women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use
them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just
because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body
language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same
kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a
hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for
approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of
guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to
like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all
over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than
men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for
example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss
her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and
exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and
getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number,
asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each
situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from
one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the
way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from
EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves
look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I
figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the
fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with
women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw
a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to
do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the
decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with
women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all
kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number
almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've
dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no
longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to
meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out
and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've
done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens
of thousands of men all around the world.
I Now Have A FREE, Three-Times-
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Oh, And One More Thing...
In this day and age
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Well, that's not the case.
I've spent a lot of time, effort, and energy writing this eBook. I wanted to design and create a program that ANY guy could
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And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,

David DeAngelo
P.S.
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